No more “I’m jaded and sad because of problems.”
No more bittersweet feelings about things that fell into place for other people and not you.
It’s not cute, hopeless romanticism when it’s pulling down people you care about most.
It’s bullshit.
Things used to be weird because of how they were, now you’re making them that way.
Get over it.
Get a handle on things.
Do something good for yourself.